We just confuse ourself with loving someone and liking someone. However, honesty will be better in the long-term. Present vs Future and therefore makes you think of a future with that person. Here's a personal story: It was our first vacation together, now 24 years ago. Philia is the kind of love you feel for your friends.
You force them to have plans, or use sex and hooking up to control them. The very vocabulary advertises that the champagne of true love is flat. Only then does the average individual try to change the imaginary act into a lived life. Like is a pleasant and benign feeling. This allows the individual to listen and comprehend the decisions and ideas of others, even if we fail to approve them. Hey, you know how the stuff that comes out right before a guy ejaculates is called pre-cum? The feeling of love starts from the eye, And the feeling of like starts from the ear. Most people use the term to refer to the people, places and things they enjoy, but feel lukewarm about.
It could be the behaviour, a characteristic or a quality that makes you like them. Absent a remarkable archaeological discovery, if someone has been dead for hundreds of years, everything that is known about what he actually said was already known long before the internet was invented. It's all about the lack of language: There aren't standardized phrases for the various feelings around love, and what we do have is imprecise: There's a crush, there's the vague stage of liking and then there's the limiting love. For example, you might write that you felt excited when this person called you or nervous when you were hanging out with them. Nine years ago, I was sitting in my college dorm room, thinking of a guy I liked and feeling what I guess some might call smitten or enamored. Love can be defined as a strong sense of affection and liking that an individual displays towards another. Especially if, after hovering in that pre-love state, that huge rush of pleasure does eventually arrive.
You are also likely to agree with them on a majority of things. You want them to have time out with the guys, or alone time, or time to pursue some hobbies without you. With someone you love, that could seem like eternity. He questioned the young people about what they think love is. In most cases, feelings that are based on external factors like this are not real love.
Because everyone experiences these emotions differently, it is difficult to identify a universal moment or alteration of emotion that signifies the change from liking to loving. This is one of the best examples of a relationship that is based purely on love. The noted psychoanalyst Ethel Person wrote in Dreams of Love and Fateful Encounters: Love is an act of the imagination. You derive a sense of power and goodness from them, because they appreciate you and care for you. The difference between like and love someone is same as that between for now and forever Like destroys……! You may also feel a more intense connection to this person. In short, you haven't known them long enough to take full measure of the person they are in all aspects.
To help figure out if you have friendly feelings or loving feelings for someone, be honest with yourself about how they make you feel. Love is where I stop seeing you as you, and start seeing you as a part of me, because I can hurt you, but not me, and if I will start seeing you as a part of me, I would try to never do anything which will hurt you. You can also pay more attention to them. Where you don't see the other person as a sense of satisfaction or pleasure. Real relatedness between two people is experienced in the small tasks they do together: the quiet conversation when the day's upheavals are at rest, the soft word of understanding, the daily companionship, the encouragement offered in a difficult moment, the small gift when least expected, the spontaneous gesture of love. For instance, the sexual nature of love comes out only in the later.
Our hearts beat a bit faster when we first see them, and we want to spend every waking moment with them for the rest of our lives! But in front of the person you love, you can show your own self. We can like lot things and people in life. You treat them as you would want to be treated--no abuse, no manipulation. You are committed to sticking together even through the most difficult circumstances. Love, on the other hand, evokes emotions. You could also think about whether you are physically attracted to them.
You want them to call or text all the time. You can feel many of the same things for both a friend and lover, but when you're in love, these feelings might be really intense! You might also notice that when you're in love with someone, your body feels like it's on a high. It's when even through the worst of times with that person, you know things will be okay. B- You can't look straight into the eyes of the one you love. You can also choose to stop loving someone, to walk away and forget about them. At first, it may hurt him to hear this. And it could be an unconditional love.
I'm guessing with me being in love already. Love, in other words, is transcending the ego to connect with another. Liking someone can be synonymous with respecting someone, agreeing with someone or even having a crush on someone, depending on the context. Women and men begin new lives in love. Not because we actually love them, but because if we did lose our partners, we will lose our feel good factor, and how and from where we will derive our happiness.