So if your boyfriend says that you should go way together, you can pretty much be overjoyed because it means that your relationship is serious now. Unless you just had a massive fight or something and he seems to be totally fleeing the scene of the crime so to speak, there's no reason for you to give him a hard time about this. But guys don't use this excuse in the same way. That is, by describing your state of being as good, you suggest that your personal situation is definitively satisfactory, in all respects. The listener may have no interest in your real feelings, but if she has, I'm good would definitely sound better to her than I'm fine. It is quite possible that the conversation that follows — if it comes from a place of genuine concern and non-judgment on both parts — is a very necessary, natural thing that is highly preferable to slapping someone else emotionally with a heavy-handed complaint right off the bat.
Did anything precede this that might have given you the impression she might not be fine? It's time to remove the phrase from our diction and start learning how to express ourselves again. Ask her if there was anything you could do to help make the relationship better. When a girl answers, I'm fine, after a few seconds, She is not at all fine. I think it's related to the increasing use of good instead of well in some informal contexts e. Yup, another harsh statement to deal with, but hey, you need to know these things. So be really glad when you hear him say something like this because it proves that your relationship is in a really good, solid place and that not much could break you up at this point.
Why not just say how you feel the first time? I'm fine, I'm good, Fine, thanks, Fine, Good, Good, thanks, etc etc When your coworker then said I'm glad to hear that it probably also carried no significant meaning. Personally, I think most of this is pretty accurate. Good seems to make it so you're actually happy about your state of being. Your argument, your reasonings and attitude are not valid. It's an array of emotional processes that make us all so complex. What he's really saying is that he's dumping you.
It's this suggestion that you don't have it together, that you're not taken seriously, that you're irrational. Again, it puts a lot of pressure on you to be happy, although both statements place great importance on your happiness, which I see as a good thing. I'm fine has become an automatic response to being asked, how are you? I have pleaded and begged him through texts messages for him to come back to me but he wont reply, I wanted him back desperately. Yup, guys think about getting married too. The convo went great and he did passionately kiss me without me instructing him even. Sorry guys, we had to point this one out because this little exchange happens pretty frequently. He's not just saying these three little words for the sake of saying them or because he feels pressured or because he figures enough time has passed and he has to say them.
You would think that we were a monolithic hive, moving from romance to romance with the efficiency and consistency of a Big Mac purchased in a foreign country. While over three quarters thought many illnesses or medical problems are still considered taboo and come with a great deal of stigma attached. She could have something on her mind that she feels afraid of saying, for fear of seeming accusatory or needy. Please, stop worrying about me! We're devaluing our feelings and our emotions because we think they're not important enough to express. They are the manifestation of our heart and soul because everyone and everything in nature cries and feels pain. She said when a girl says that, it means that something is actually really wrong and you need to give her extra attention. When he says he's going out with his friends, what he really means is that he feels obligated to tell you because he thinks he should ask you permission.
No meaning can be discerned from those words. This is honestly as close to a marriage proposal as you're going to get at this point in time and at this stage in your relationship, and you should be thrilled because this is pretty awesome. Therefore, he's being very cautious with you because he likes you. You will drive yourself absolutely crazy. Serious couples don't go on vacation together.
Another aspect is that sometimes we really don't know what to say to a woman. When you've just started dating a guy -- say it's been a few weeks and it's still at a pretty casual stage -- you obviously want to see them as much as possible. It could be the most random, silliest thing ever and you could be super confused because you were talking about something pretty serious and heavy and now, suddenly, you're chatting about something totally ridiculous. He means: I think i might be falling in love with you He says: It seems like he is a pretty close friend He means: Was there something more serious between you two? Hey, you can't really blame him on the last one, right? When your boyfriends makes a point of saying that he loves your family, he's saying that he's in this thing with you for good. If people were happy-go-lucky all the time, we'd be worried about them. Of course I'm going to over-analyze - - - Updated - - -.
So watch out and see what they start talking about next. When a guy says I really like you he might as well be screaming at the top of his lungs that he's falling totally in love with you and he can't even believe how great it is. This is person is part of your life and if something is making you upset, he has the right to know about it. I'm fine tends to be a more neutral way of saying how you are, like you're not good and you're not bad. You have to dig deeper first, by asking and by trying to read emotional cues, like tone, body language, and so on. You can contact him as follows Email: Website: Mobile Number: +1 386-336-9876. When a girl says that she can't live without you, She has made up her mind that you are her future.