When your girlfriend is mad at you, it might seem like a really bad thing yet instead of feeling frustrated or stressed about it, use it as an opportunity to deepen her feelings of love towards you. Will he bring the interaction back to love, laughter and connection, or will he get angry and try to intimidate her physically? It is just a normal question that you ask her, and that is enough to irk her and make her yell at you. No Replies She is not even bothering to reply. And she is just texting for the sake of texting. A woman wants a ready-made man who understands what women are attracted to about men.
On the other hand, there is a possibility that she's being unreasonable in her demands emotional or otherwise , you can try to explain your side of the story. So, be there to hold her hand and give her a warm embrace instead of arguing with her. I had three girls extremely pissed off at me, and the girl that I'm involved with went into another room crying. If you succeed into doing this, you have become the master at maintaining the relationship with your girlfriend. She wanted you to randomly send her flowers to her office this week and you didn't. I miss her and am fearful I might lose her but I really feel that the ball is in her court! All they will be thinking about is how to not have you upset with them. It's that we consider the girl is being irrational and there's nothing left to talk about.
Adding a small gift is also likely to cheer her mood. When you say or do anything that makes your woman feel unloved, she will push you away. Otherwise you are just going to get in to another fight. She might take some time to melt, depending on the intensity and reason for her anger, but she sure will unless you have done something horrible. Because you had lunch with your sister instead of her.
Then what should be your next step? At this point, assuming that she's at least on talking terms and hasn't completely shunned you out, all your energy should be utilized into making her forget about the fight. Editor's Picks Remind yourself of all the things about her that caused you to first fall in love with her and then tell her these things. Remind her about the good times you've shared. I had three girls extremely pissed off at me, not to mention the fact that I was made a fool of by the way I got played. So, if she needs a few days of space, feel free to give her that and then contact her to say hi, get her smiling and laughing on the phone and then arrange to meet up with her. She will see right through it and she will likely become even angrier at you for trying to brush over her feelings with distractions.
She has a Master's degree in writing and a Bachelor of Arts in English and anthropology. Use them and make your relationship stronger. You bury the hatchet, live and let live, water under the bridge that whole situation and get on with things. I'm not saying that's the case. First, it showed that I didn't need her, that I had other girls, and she ended up begging me not to be mad at her and leave her.
But she won't tell you because she doesn't want to seem too difficult. Maintaining relationships is tough work. In your case, you may or may not be doing these things or have a whole box of 'don'ts' of your own , but it is possible that certain behavioral choices irk her. When he tells her that he has to cancel, she gets angry and hangs up on him, or refuses to talk to him when he gets home or calls her the next day. One that shows that you are truly sorry and will make her forgive you that instant.
This line is sure to jolt her back to reality and make her realize how much you love her. But what she really needs is to be shown love. Now comes the darker side of a fight; she's giving you the silent treatment. The most obvious, and probably one of the strongest weapons that women have is ignoring the man. Repeated, tried and tested ideas may not work here she knows it and so do you. You will literally feel as if you have stopped existing for her. I said I was dating a few girls.
When your girl is mad at you, most of the time all it takes to make her not mad is an apology. You might need to give her some time, even after you apologize to her, yet it works. There are different levels of anger a woman will go through; and these levels can only be deciphered by men who have experience in dealing with such situations and have lived to tell the tale. Men and women have different takes on how they handle particular situations. This applies to your girlfriend as well. Or even looking at one, really.